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Getting into an intimate relationship, or if the couple is sexually active, usually involves an important factor that we really should take importance of, which is our sexual health, both for the woman and the man. There are differences on women and men, but sexual health is primarily important for the two.
The World Health Organization, (WHO), defines sexual health as “a state of sexuality connected to emotions, also as physical, mental and in social well-being; not only in absence of diseases, in a state of bad condition, nor dysfunction. Sexual health needs an optimistic, regardful approach to sexuality, and intimate relationships, considering also the expectation of having safe and pleasurable sexual occurences, without coercion, violence, and discrimination. In order to achieve and maintain sexual health, all the sexual rights of each person must be respected, defended, and fulfilled.”

Being made as two different human species, a woman and a man is subject to compatibility and is made to connect with each other, often leading into intimate relationships and eventually, getting married. All couples are intended to share similar interests, such as in mental growth, spiritual growth, psychological aspects, and of course in a physical or a sharing of intimate moments. Of course, teenagers begin to get curious sexually, as they grow old.

The World Health Organization, (WHO), defines sexual health as “a state of sexuality connected to emotions, also as physical, mental and in social well-being; not only in absence of diseases, in a state of bad condition, nor dysfunction. Sexual health needs an optimistic, regardful approach to sexuality, and intimate relationships, considering also the expectation of having safe and pleasurable sexual occurences, without violence, coercion, and discrimination. In order to achieve and maintain sexual health, all the sexual rights of each person must be respected, defended, and fulfilled.”

In this case, sexual health is in tune to two different cases, man and woman. We differ in nature, mainly more on the physical aspects with regards to sexual health. A man’s health in terms of sex usually refers to factors such as issues on prostate health, and also on chronic diseases, as well as sexual and reproductive functioning issues such as erectile dysfunction, or infertility.

Pregnancy is a major event for a woman and that alone should need a good record to track their health. These may give sexual desire for men, but it is also important to be in good health for a healthy and normal offspring. Gynecological concerns are important also, since it is the cleanliness and health of the woman’s vagina.

A man’s health in terms of sex usually refers to factors such as issues on prostate health, and also on chronic diseases, as well as sexual and reproductive functioning issues such as erectile dysfunction, or infertility.

Granted, you might get her attention for a brief moment – just like any other kind of abnormality she might notice would get her attention – but your looks won’t turn her sexual motor on. Why? Once a woman decides to enter into a relationship, looks no longer matter to her – if they ever mattered to her at all.

You can have a perfect forehead, chin, smile, and even a perfect pair of dimples but none of these will start a woman’s sexual motor. You can work out at the gym all week long, week after week and look like Mr. Atlas, but you aren’t going to start a woman’s sexual motor with your muscles.

Now, I’m not dismissing the necessity for trimness, neatness, and cleanliness. These are things a woman expects of a man. They are not what started her sexual motor.

It’s Not In What You Have

The danger with this approach is that you may trigger her “greed factor” such that she is attracted to you in terms of what she can “get” from you. Because she’s not being true to herself, sex will be something she despises.

Many men mistakenly believe that if they were in a position of prominence, or if they were a celebrity, or if they held some kind of high-profile social rank, that they would then be able to start a woman’s sexual motor.

The number of women throughout history who have left high-profile men in favor of a “no-name” man is incalculable. The tabloid magazines show us this phenomenon on a regular basis – where some starlet has dumped the celebrity she has been dating and is now dating some unknown man who is just short of being down-right ugly.

Once a woman decides to enter into a relationship, looks no longer matter to her – if they ever mattered to her at all.

And when a woman despises, her sexual motor is definitely turned off.

And in fact, there are cases where a woman is attracted to a high social status man simply for the attention and prestige that being affiliated with such a man will bring to her.

These are things a woman expects of a man. You can flaunt any other material possessions in front of a woman and you simply aren’t going to turn her on. (As obvious as this may seem, there are men worldwide trying to capture a woman’s attention by means of their possessions.).

You can wear Armani suits. You can flaunt any other material possessions in front of a woman and you simply aren’t going to turn her on. (As obvious as this may seem, there are men worldwide trying to capture a woman’s attention by means of their possessions.).

Once again, this kind of a relationship is founded on hollow and shallow premises. And, as it has been proven again and again, the very thing the woman was attracted to will soon become the thing she despises the most. And when a woman despises, her sexual motor is definitely turned off.

Why would women do this? Because the “no-name” guy clearly knows how to start her sexual motor while the prominent guy did not.

It’s Not Your Social Status.

This phenomenon can easily be seen in “marriages” where an attractive young woman is married to a wealthy and old man. Both the woman and the man know that the marriage is based on purely selfish motives and nobody’s sexual motor has ever been started based on selfishness.

Having female sexual dysfunction can be bothersome, a terrible condition similar to erectile

many different causes. An estimated 40% of women suffer from sexual dysfunction and might be

caused by any physical illness, or may be linked to psychological factors. This condition mainly

dysfunction in men. Inadequate sexual function in women can be a complex problem that can have

affects a woman’s sexual health, and has symptoms including lack of sexual desire, inability to

enjoy sex, insufficient vaginal lubrication, and even failure to have an orgasm.

Known as Female Sexual Arousal Disorder (FSAD), this condition still makes women

psychologically desire for sex, but their genital area fails to respond normally, making it

impossible or painful to have sex. When women and men normally get aroused, their genitals become

engorged with blood. For women, this results in the enlargement of the clitoris and surrounding

tissues (comparable to a male erection), secretion of vaginal lubrication, and relaxation and

Be caused by certain irritations, infections, and growth in the vaginal area. It can also be

a negative physiological reaction to certain birth control methods. This condition may also be

can result from an underlying medical condition such as high blood pressure or diabetes. This can

A woman’s sexual health is affected by a number of other health conditions. In this case, FSAD

widening of the vaginal opening for intercourse.

caused by medications used to treat high blood pressure, peptic ulcers, depression, anxiety, or

that occur during or after pregnancy, or while breast feeding. In addition, FSAD can also be

cancer. Another reason may be due to a combination of physical, hormonal, or emotional changes

linked to several psychological causes including depression, poor self-esteem, sexual abuse, fear

of pregnancy, ineffective or inadequate foreplay, feelings of shame or guilt about sex, or stress

and fatigue.

For treatment of FSAD, ongoing research has suggested that the use of Viagra for treating sexual

disorders in women helps increase blood flow, thereby increasing physical stimulation in the

on women. For now, physicians concentrate on eliminating medications that might have a negative

impact on a woman’s sexual health. Doctors also review the effects of certain contraceptive

methods that can be a possible factor for FSAD.

genital area. Researchers are still waiting for evidence that Viagra could actually work

For women who suffer from vaginal dryness, it is recommended for them to use lubricants before

having sexual intercourse in order to prevent pain. On the other hand, some physicians recommend

women to practice Kegel Exercises, a form of exercise that helps in developing the muscles around

sensations. Adding to this, psychological counseling can also play an integral role in treating

techniques can also contribute to the wellness of a woman who suffers from FSAD.

the outer part of the vagina. These muscles are involved in the production of pleasurable

women with sexual problems, including FSAD. Coaching in sexual foreplay as well as stimulation

Upon knowing all these, women can now become more aware of this sexual health condition that

will also help women address or prevent such a frustrating sexual condition.

might be experienced by many, but is often misunderstood. Consulting one’s physician may be the

best way to know more about FSAD. Constant check-up sessions with the physician or gynecologist

Older women and younger men enjoy equal, open, and exciting relationships. As one forty-seven-year-old divorcee with a twenty-eight-year-old lover says, “Younger men are just more fun.”
It might be time to “think again” about younger men.
If you can’t imagine yourself with a younger man, let your values, aspirations, and interests guide you. If you are open to a different kind of relationship, a younger man will appear in your life.

I often awake to find Beverly, my older wife, wrapped around me like a Virginia creeper. In the nineteen years since we met, she has shown me what true love is, and I couldn’t live without it. For the first time, I have someone who wants me as much as I want her.

Falling in love with an older woman is the best thing I ever did, and I’m not alone. The percentage of women marrying younger men doubled over the past two decades, and women marrying for the second time are seven times more likely to marry a younger man.
Listen to women with younger lovers or husbands and you’ll hear:
” We’re a perfect fit,”
” He accepts me as I am,”
” He keeps me young,”
” I liked it on top.”
If you haven’t discovered the joys of a younger man, it’s probably cultural. If it’s an older man with his second (or third) wife, you’re not alone. Hollywood is run by men, so it’s hard to escape their fantasies.
Older women and younger men enjoy equal, open, and exciting relationships. As one forty-seven-year-old divorcee with a twenty-eight-year-old lover says, “Younger men are just more fun.”
The first step in finding the right partner is to know more about yourself. Think about people, places, objects, issues, hobbies, careers, and organizations.
Close your eyes and imagine your ideal soulmate. (Careful, this doesn’t mean ignoring your feelings, denying deeply held beliefs, or trying to change someone else).
This may seem like a curious way to find a mate, but sometimes we’re too busy living our lives to question whether it’s the right life. Think about what you really want, not what you think you should want. This might include raising a family, succeeding at your career, building a business, fighting for an issue, or finding a spiritual community.
Imagine the ideal partner for your younger self. It might be time to “think again” about younger men.
Let your aspirations, values, and interests guide you if you can’t imagine yourself with a younger man. The best way to find someone worthwhile is to become the person you always wanted to be. By being good to yourself and others, you help people become better and you attract better people.
Visualize doing something with your soulmate (no, outside the bedroom). Building homes for poor families? If you’re looking for the right person, you can meet your ideal partner anytime, anywhere, doing almost anything.
The most important thing is to be yourself rather than pretending to be someone you think others will want. Remember the “rules” for women that advised: “Don’t talk to a man first” and “Don’t call him and rarely return his calls”?
Start by being less concerned about whether a man is older, wiser, richer, taller, or all the things you might have wanted when you were sixteen. The most important thing about a man is his character. Younger guys may need guidance, but we all teach others how to treat us, and older women are better teachers.
No matter what your age, you don’t need to change the world to find love, sometimes all that has to change is you. A younger man will appear in your life if you are open to a different kind of relationship. It happens all the time.

Ok … so you have seen The Secret. Now, it’s time to get rockin’ with the Law of Attraction.

Many times people get all jazzed up when they learn about the Law of Attraction – but implementing it gets tricky and that “jazz” fizzles out.

You may have heard the Law of Attraction referred to in different ways throughout your life, but it has no doubt shown up. Here’s a few ways we have talked about it …

How would it feel to be able to ATTRACT what ever you would like INTO your life? You can come to depend on the Universal Law of Attraction, just as you have come to depend on the Physical Law of Gravity.

1. What you have sown you reap.
2. What you put out you get back.
3. Like attracts like
4. Law of supply and demand
5. What comes around goes around.
6. “As a man thinks in his heart, so is he.” Proverbs 23:7
7. Emerson called it the Law of Compensation

You may have had the experience in your life where you have wanted something very badly, and out of that passion, out of that pure desire, you were able to create it. To having that “something” come into your life.

Catherine Ponder, author of the Dynamic Laws of Prosperity defines the Law of Attraction like this: “What you radiate outward in your thoughts, feelings, mental pictures, and words you attract into your life.”

The key would be to focus on FEELING GOOD and focus on what you DO want! How you are feeling and where your attention is, is your point of attraction.

If like attracts like … and you focus on the negative aspects of anything, or focus on what you do not have – you will create more of what you do not have. If you focus (and sometimes we do very strongly) on what you DON’T want in your life, for example, I don’t want cancer … I don’t want poverty … I don’t want this or that or this or that … you are saying NO to it, and that as well will bring it into our lives. What we give our attention to comes into our life … it is the Law of Attraction.

Yes, like attracts like. It means that when you are focused upon what you WANT to create in your life you will attract that … and when you are focused upon what you DON’T WANT to create in your life, you will attract that too. What you focus on gets bigger … and comes to you quickly.

You may also have had the experience in your life where you have wanted something very much and have not been able to create it. Think about money for a moment … You want very badly to create the flow of money into your life, but you don’t. You focus on the fact that it’s not here, you focus on the lack of money in your life.

Most of the time we walk around creating by default … now it’s time to create using the Law of Attraction. You can do or be or have anything that you desire in this life. You must acknowledge yourself as the powerful creator that you are and choose thoughts and feelings that make you feel good, and that are in alignment with what you really want in your life.

You must remember that there is always enough, and what you ask for is given to you. You must remember that you were meant to prosper … be wealthy on all levels of life.

You may have heard the Law of Attraction referred to in different ways throughout your life, but it has no doubt shown up. It means that when you are focused upon what you WANT to create in your life you will attract that … and when you are focused upon what you DON’T WANT to create in your life, you will attract that too. You focus on the fact that it’s not here, you focus on the lack of money in your life. If you focus (and sometimes we do very strongly) on what you DON’T want in your life, for example, I don’t want cancer … I don’t want poverty … I don’t want this or that or this or that … you are saying NO to it, and that as well will bring it into our lives. What we give our attention to comes into our life … it is the Law of Attraction.

” Megan, many men know how to project sexual energy in a way that arouses women. These men define their worth by their sexuality and by their ability to attract woman.

This is a frequent question from my single women clients.

Megan asked the following questions in one of our phone sessions: “Over and over, when I’m really attracted to a man and I sleep with him fairly early in the relationship, I discover that he is not good husband material. What am I doing wrong? Am I just attracted to the wrong kind of men?”

” So what should I be doing when I feel that powerful sexual attraction?”

If you feel sexual upon first meeting someone, there is a good possibility that this man just wants a sexual encounter with you rather than a real relationship with you. My suggestion to you is to not have sex early in a relationship, even if you are very attracted.”

” Well, when do you have sex?”

When you have sex too early in a relationship, it might not be emotionally or physically satisfying. When sex is not an expression of love, it often feels empty, and then the guy might decide that you are not the right person for him because there were no fireworks.

Why not wait until there is a commitment to the relationship and to growing and learning with each other? How often have you slept with a man that you were really attracted to and then had the relationship not work out?”

Many of my clients with the best relationships are people who were not immediately attracted to each other. Others, who were attracted immediately, lost their attraction as they got to know the person.

” More often than I’m willing to admit. This is what keeps happening. Are you saying that I should also go out with men that I’m not immediately attracted to?”

” Many men can have sex and then just move on without any inner turmoil. Many women feel connected to a man when they have sex with him and then feel awful when the relationship doesn’t work out. Because all he wanted was sex, it is unloving to yourself to sleep with a man early in the relationship and then run the risk of being dumped.

” But,” replied Megan, “I always think that a man won’t like me if I don’t have sex with him.”

” Well, if you doesn’t like you for not having sex with him, what does this tell you about him?”

Megan completely changed her pattern with men and within a year she was engaged to be married.

” I guess it tells me that he is not good husband material.”

” Okay, I see that now. I see that what I’ve been doing is never going to lead to marriage. I’m going to put sex on the back burner and pay more attention to caring and intimacy.”

Megan asked the following questions in one of our phone sessions: “Over and over, when I’m really attracted to a man and I sleep with him fairly early in the relationship, I discover that he is not good husband material. If you feel sexual upon first meeting someone, there is a good possibility that this man just wants a sexual encounter with you rather than a real relationship with you. How often have you slept with a man that you were really attracted to and then had the relationship not work out?”

“! You have nothing to lose by not having sex right away.”

Many women feel connected to a man when they have sex with him and then feel awful when the relationship doesn’t work out. It is unloving to yourself to sleep with a man early in the relationship and then run the risk of being dumped because all he wanted was sex.

Things can be simpler if you understand where the men you are dating are coming from. Here is some dating advice for women of modern times.

The problem with modern dating from the man’s point of view:

A lot of men feel that women aren’t acting like women anymore. If you can still treat a man like he’s your hero, he’ll do anything for you.

Many men feel that women want to have their cake and eat it too. They want men who are confident but not so confident as to threaten their positions. They want to make as much or more money than men make, but they expect the man to pay when they go out.

Be obvious when you’re interested:

This is a really important piece of dating advice for women. If you want a guy to know that you’re interested, you need to be pretty direct about it. If you look back a couple of seconds later and he is looking at you, the best thing to do is smile and keep eye contact for another couple of seconds.

Be confident and honest:

Just be direct. If he’s interested, he will be paying attention to any little hint you give that you are interested.

Personalities vary:

You’ve already eliminated a great deal of modern world dating confusion if you understand this dating advice for women.

Just like women, men have different things that will get their attention. Some men are less aggressive and more shy. Don’t think that just because a man is shy that he is a wimp.

They want to make as much or more money than men make, but they expect the man to pay when they go out.

The wonderful world of dating. Whether it’s the life you’ve always lead or you’re just getting back into it after the end of a long-term relationship, dating can be tricky sometimes to say the least. Things can be simpler if you understand where the men you are dating are coming from. Here is some dating advice for women of modern times.

You’re not girly enough. You don’t talk enough. You talk too much.
Turn off your TV.
The truth of the matter is that men, the desirable ones, don’t care all that much about what you look like. They don’t care if you’re shy, or if you occasionally ramble on about nothing. Instead, they tend to gravitate toward women who possess a valuable, seemingly elusive, quality:
Happiness.
Oh, yes. Happy women attract men, small children, dogs, and guinea pigs like magnets. What man in his right mind wouldn’t want to be around a happy woman?
Think I’m being silly? I’m not, and I’ll prove it to you.
Like a lot of people, my weight used to fluctuate (although not so much anymore, thanks to regular dates with a NordicTrack). At one point I was 30 pounds heavier than I am today, and some friends had invited me out for dinner and drinks.

While trying on 3,000 outfits in an attempt to find something that made me look thin, I had an epiphany: I wasn’t going to lose 30 pounds in two hours. I set a goal to focus on whomever spoke to me, to look him or her in the eye, and to forget about myself.
Before I left the house, I brought to mind all the things I had going for me. I smiled sincerely at people and made a point of putting them at ease once I was out.
The result? One very attractive guy (whom I previously considered completely out of my league) asked me out that night, starting a fun and memorable summer romance.
After we ‘d broken up a few months later, I woke up with the symptoms of some sort of food allergy. I ‘d lost 25 pounds, but that didn’t change the fact that my eyelids bulged like footballs.
I had plans to attend a party that evening, so I immediately turned to the teabag-on-the-eyelid therapy touted by the beauty mags. I tried ice packs, frozen spoons, frozen peas. I tried drinking loads of lemon water and following it up with a pot of detoxifying herbal tea.
Clearly, looking my best was not in the cards. After spending the afternoon in the bathroom ridding myself of lemon water and tea, I set out for the party looking like Jabba the Hut from the neck up.
Once again, I ‘d made a decision. Sure, I ‘d be the most physically repellent creature in the room, but why get bummed out about it? Wearing a little brown eye shadow to play down the lid bulge and a confident smile, I hit the party.
All night I banished the nagging temptation to head to the bathroom to poke at my swollen face. I achieved my goal of having a great time.
Guess who scored a date with a good-looking, very funny guy?
If you want to attract guys, forget about what’s wrong about you. You’ll find yourself attracting better friends, better men, and better circumstances.
Next time you’re on your way out of the house and feeling like no man in the world would ever be interested in you, think about things that make you laugh. When you were truly happy, bring to mind times in your life.
Put a smile on your face and walk out that door!

The truth of the matter is that men, the desirable ones, don’t care all that much about what you look like. Happy women attract men, small children, dogs, and guinea pigs like magnets. What man in his right mind wouldn’t want to be around a happy woman?
If you want to attract guys, forget about what’s wrong about you. You’ll find yourself attracting better friends, better men, and better circumstances.

Hmm … you’re probably been thinking about pheromone perfumes. Well, pheromone perfumes have long been offered in the market for women and men wishing to enhance their seductive assets.

What actually is a pheromone? What is a pheromone perfume and why it is considered as a secret seducer?

Whatever the explanation behind this great wonder is, the pheromone perfumes are now marketed in two types: pheromone perfumes for men and pheromone perfumes for women. Both types are highly optimized, meaning they are both certified by laboratory studies and they contain the optimum concentration of pheromones that are active enough to alter the sexual behaviors.

How pheromone perfumes actually work to do such wonder still remains a mystery until now. Despite this baffling fact, the pheromone perfumes are now marketed legally throughout the United States. Several perfumes with the name “pheromones” on their labels are in fact offered as nature’s chemical sex signal to attract the opposite sex.

Pheromone perfumes are fragrances that contain the odorless pheromone. Many have said that when a woman or a man applies pheromone perfume on their bodies, they tend to attract the opposite sex.

Well, pheromone perfumes have long been offered in the market for women and men wishing to enhance their seductive assets. Pheromone perfumes are fragrances that contain the odorless pheromone. Many have said that when a woman or a man applies pheromone perfume on their bodies, they tend to attract the opposite sex. What’s further interesting to know about this craze is that the pheromone perfumes designed for men are formulated with greatest amounts of biologically active pheromones. On the other hand, the optimized pheromone perfume designed for women are scientifically proven to heighten the level of testosterone in men.

Pheromone is in the first place a natural secret weapon. It is odorless, undetectable and invisible, and according to some studies, it is only through our vomeronasal organ, which is located in our nasal cavity, that we are able to detect pheromones.

What’s further interesting to know about this craze is that the pheromone perfumes designed for men are formulated with greatest amounts of biologically active pheromones. On the other hand, the optimized pheromone perfume designed for women are scientifically proven to heighten the level of testosterone in men.

Well, numerous clinical studies have noted that pheromone perfumes are great seducers. The chemical can heighten the sensual responses and awaken the person’s appetite for sex in the same beautiful way that the smell of a delicate food can awaken hunger.

What is the ONE thing women want from a guy the most?”

You Do NOT need to try and please her with attention and compliments.

Many people might think it may be money, security, looks, humor or any of that other stuff that most guys tend to think of. Its Being a Real Man that’s the one thing women want; it’s a man whose real and knows what he is about and where he is going …

You Do NOT need to impress her by bragging.

Because you are a MAN, the Main reason a woman wants you is. , if you begin to act like women or her own personal Court Jester; women will NOT be attracted to you.. Women who don’t need a man is called a Lesbian and not surprisingly even with these women acting like women won’t get you anywhere.

Instead Attract a woman by giving her the full synesthesia of a “Real Man.”

To attract a woman you Do NOT need to “entertain her by “being funny”.

Put in another way, a woman is a man and a woman is a man and a man needs a woman and a woman needs a man, makes sense?

Here are 7 Ways of the “Real Man

1. Maintain control during the date.
2. Never let her walk all over you.
3. Never whine or complain.
4. Learn how to say “no” to a woman and say it often.
5. Set clear goals in your life.
6. Be comfortable with yourself.
7. Be comfortable with all your desires,

A BIG part of becoming a Real MAN is to take matters into YOUR OWN HAND. Read this part VERY carefully, no one is going to live your life for you. You can’t just sit there and expect attractive women to come to you.

The Main reason a woman wants you is because you are a MAN. If you begin to act like women or her own personal Court Jester; women will NOT be attracted to you. Women who don’t need a man is called a Lesbian and not surprisingly even with these women acting like women won’t get you anywhere.

A BIG part of becoming a Real MAN is to take matters into YOUR OWN HAND. You can’t just sit there and expect attractive women to come to you.

You need to take control of your own life, and meet the kinds of women you’ve always wanted to meet.