Author: Nitin Agarwal

  • Sexual Attraction – Addiction or Intimacy?

    Sexual Attraction – Addiction or Intimacy?

    ” Megan, many men know how to project sexual energy in a way that arouses women. These men define their worth by their sexuality and by their ability to attract woman.

    This is a frequent question from my single women clients.

    Megan asked the following questions in one of our phone sessions: “Over and over, when I’m really attracted to a man and I sleep with him fairly early in the relationship, I discover that he is not good husband material. What am I doing wrong? Am I just attracted to the wrong kind of men?”

    ” So what should I be doing when I feel that powerful sexual attraction?”

    If you feel sexual upon first meeting someone, there is a good possibility that this man just wants a sexual encounter with you rather than a real relationship with you. My suggestion to you is to not have sex early in a relationship, even if you are very attracted.”

    ” Well, when do you have sex?”

    When you have sex too early in a relationship, it might not be emotionally or physically satisfying. When sex is not an expression of love, it often feels empty, and then the guy might decide that you are not the right person for him because there were no fireworks.

    Why not wait until there is a commitment to the relationship and to growing and learning with each other? How often have you slept with a man that you were really attracted to and then had the relationship not work out?”

    Many of my clients with the best relationships are people who were not immediately attracted to each other. Others, who were attracted immediately, lost their attraction as they got to know the person.

    ” More often than I’m willing to admit. This is what keeps happening. Are you saying that I should also go out with men that I’m not immediately attracted to?”

    ” Many men can have sex and then just move on without any inner turmoil. Many women feel connected to a man when they have sex with him and then feel awful when the relationship doesn’t work out. Because all he wanted was sex, it is unloving to yourself to sleep with a man early in the relationship and then run the risk of being dumped.

    ” But,” replied Megan, “I always think that a man won’t like me if I don’t have sex with him.”

    ” Well, if you doesn’t like you for not having sex with him, what does this tell you about him?”

    Megan completely changed her pattern with men and within a year she was engaged to be married.

    ” I guess it tells me that he is not good husband material.”

    ” Okay, I see that now. I see that what I’ve been doing is never going to lead to marriage. I’m going to put sex on the back burner and pay more attention to caring and intimacy.”

    Megan asked the following questions in one of our phone sessions: “Over and over, when I’m really attracted to a man and I sleep with him fairly early in the relationship, I discover that he is not good husband material. If you feel sexual upon first meeting someone, there is a good possibility that this man just wants a sexual encounter with you rather than a real relationship with you. How often have you slept with a man that you were really attracted to and then had the relationship not work out?”

    “! You have nothing to lose by not having sex right away.”

    Many women feel connected to a man when they have sex with him and then feel awful when the relationship doesn’t work out. It is unloving to yourself to sleep with a man early in the relationship and then run the risk of being dumped because all he wanted was sex.

  • Dating Advice For Women – What You Should Know

    Dating Advice For Women – What You Should Know

    Things can be simpler if you understand where the men you are dating are coming from. Here is some dating advice for women of modern times.

    The problem with modern dating from the man’s point of view:

    A lot of men feel that women aren’t acting like women anymore. If you can still treat a man like he’s your hero, he’ll do anything for you.

    Many men feel that women want to have their cake and eat it too. They want men who are confident but not so confident as to threaten their positions. They want to make as much or more money than men make, but they expect the man to pay when they go out.

    Be obvious when you’re interested:

    This is a really important piece of dating advice for women. If you want a guy to know that you’re interested, you need to be pretty direct about it. If you look back a couple of seconds later and he is looking at you, the best thing to do is smile and keep eye contact for another couple of seconds.

    Be confident and honest:

    Just be direct. If he’s interested, he will be paying attention to any little hint you give that you are interested.

    Personalities vary:

    You’ve already eliminated a great deal of modern world dating confusion if you understand this dating advice for women.

    Just like women, men have different things that will get their attention. Some men are less aggressive and more shy. Don’t think that just because a man is shy that he is a wimp.

    They want to make as much or more money than men make, but they expect the man to pay when they go out.

    The wonderful world of dating. Whether it’s the life you’ve always lead or you’re just getting back into it after the end of a long-term relationship, dating can be tricky sometimes to say the least. Things can be simpler if you understand where the men you are dating are coming from. Here is some dating advice for women of modern times.

  • Attract Men Like a Magnet

    Attract Men Like a Magnet

    You’re not girly enough. You don’t talk enough. You talk too much.
    Turn off your TV.
    The truth of the matter is that men, the desirable ones, don’t care all that much about what you look like. They don’t care if you’re shy, or if you occasionally ramble on about nothing. Instead, they tend to gravitate toward women who possess a valuable, seemingly elusive, quality:
    Happiness.
    Oh, yes. Happy women attract men, small children, dogs, and guinea pigs like magnets. What man in his right mind wouldn’t want to be around a happy woman?
    Think I’m being silly? I’m not, and I’ll prove it to you.
    Like a lot of people, my weight used to fluctuate (although not so much anymore, thanks to regular dates with a NordicTrack). At one point I was 30 pounds heavier than I am today, and some friends had invited me out for dinner and drinks.


    While trying on 3,000 outfits in an attempt to find something that made me look thin, I had an epiphany: I wasn’t going to lose 30 pounds in two hours. I set a goal to focus on whomever spoke to me, to look him or her in the eye, and to forget about myself.
    Before I left the house, I brought to mind all the things I had going for me. I smiled sincerely at people and made a point of putting them at ease once I was out.
    The result? One very attractive guy (whom I previously considered completely out of my league) asked me out that night, starting a fun and memorable summer romance.
    After we ‘d broken up a few months later, I woke up with the symptoms of some sort of food allergy. I ‘d lost 25 pounds, but that didn’t change the fact that my eyelids bulged like footballs.
    I had plans to attend a party that evening, so I immediately turned to the teabag-on-the-eyelid therapy touted by the beauty mags. I tried ice packs, frozen spoons, frozen peas. I tried drinking loads of lemon water and following it up with a pot of detoxifying herbal tea.
    Clearly, looking my best was not in the cards. After spending the afternoon in the bathroom ridding myself of lemon water and tea, I set out for the party looking like Jabba the Hut from the neck up.
    Once again, I ‘d made a decision. Sure, I ‘d be the most physically repellent creature in the room, but why get bummed out about it? Wearing a little brown eye shadow to play down the lid bulge and a confident smile, I hit the party.
    All night I banished the nagging temptation to head to the bathroom to poke at my swollen face. I achieved my goal of having a great time.
    Guess who scored a date with a good-looking, very funny guy?
    If you want to attract guys, forget about what’s wrong about you. You’ll find yourself attracting better friends, better men, and better circumstances.
    Next time you’re on your way out of the house and feeling like no man in the world would ever be interested in you, think about things that make you laugh. When you were truly happy, bring to mind times in your life.
    Put a smile on your face and walk out that door!

    The truth of the matter is that men, the desirable ones, don’t care all that much about what you look like. Happy women attract men, small children, dogs, and guinea pigs like magnets. What man in his right mind wouldn’t want to be around a happy woman?
    If you want to attract guys, forget about what’s wrong about you. You’ll find yourself attracting better friends, better men, and better circumstances.

  • Pheromone Perfume: A Secret Seducer?

    Pheromone Perfume: A Secret Seducer?

    Hmm … you’re probably been thinking about pheromone perfumes. Well, pheromone perfumes have long been offered in the market for women and men wishing to enhance their seductive assets.

    What actually is a pheromone? What is a pheromone perfume and why it is considered as a secret seducer?

    Whatever the explanation behind this great wonder is, the pheromone perfumes are now marketed in two types: pheromone perfumes for men and pheromone perfumes for women. Both types are highly optimized, meaning they are both certified by laboratory studies and they contain the optimum concentration of pheromones that are active enough to alter the sexual behaviors.

    How pheromone perfumes actually work to do such wonder still remains a mystery until now. Despite this baffling fact, the pheromone perfumes are now marketed legally throughout the United States. Several perfumes with the name “pheromones” on their labels are in fact offered as nature’s chemical sex signal to attract the opposite sex.

    Pheromone perfumes are fragrances that contain the odorless pheromone. Many have said that when a woman or a man applies pheromone perfume on their bodies, they tend to attract the opposite sex.

    Well, pheromone perfumes have long been offered in the market for women and men wishing to enhance their seductive assets. Pheromone perfumes are fragrances that contain the odorless pheromone. Many have said that when a woman or a man applies pheromone perfume on their bodies, they tend to attract the opposite sex. What’s further interesting to know about this craze is that the pheromone perfumes designed for men are formulated with greatest amounts of biologically active pheromones. On the other hand, the optimized pheromone perfume designed for women are scientifically proven to heighten the level of testosterone in men.

    Pheromone is in the first place a natural secret weapon. It is odorless, undetectable and invisible, and according to some studies, it is only through our vomeronasal organ, which is located in our nasal cavity, that we are able to detect pheromones.

    What’s further interesting to know about this craze is that the pheromone perfumes designed for men are formulated with greatest amounts of biologically active pheromones. On the other hand, the optimized pheromone perfume designed for women are scientifically proven to heighten the level of testosterone in men.

    Well, numerous clinical studies have noted that pheromone perfumes are great seducers. The chemical can heighten the sensual responses and awaken the person’s appetite for sex in the same beautiful way that the smell of a delicate food can awaken hunger.

  • What a Woman Wants in a Man?

    What a Woman Wants in a Man?

    What is the ONE thing women want from a guy the most?”

    You Do NOT need to try and please her with attention and compliments.

    Many people might think it may be money, security, looks, humor or any of that other stuff that most guys tend to think of. Its Being a Real Man that’s the one thing women want; it’s a man whose real and knows what he is about and where he is going …

    You Do NOT need to impress her by bragging.

    Because you are a MAN, the Main reason a woman wants you is. , if you begin to act like women or her own personal Court Jester; women will NOT be attracted to you.. Women who don’t need a man is called a Lesbian and not surprisingly even with these women acting like women won’t get you anywhere.

    Instead Attract a woman by giving her the full synesthesia of a “Real Man.”

    To attract a woman you Do NOT need to “entertain her by “being funny”.

    Put in another way, a woman is a man and a woman is a man and a man needs a woman and a woman needs a man, makes sense?

    Here are 7 Ways of the “Real Man

    1. Maintain control during the date.
    2. Never let her walk all over you.
    3. Never whine or complain.
    4. Learn how to say “no” to a woman and say it often.
    5. Set clear goals in your life.
    6. Be comfortable with yourself.
    7. Be comfortable with all your desires,

    A BIG part of becoming a Real MAN is to take matters into YOUR OWN HAND. Read this part VERY carefully, no one is going to live your life for you. You can’t just sit there and expect attractive women to come to you.

    The Main reason a woman wants you is because you are a MAN. If you begin to act like women or her own personal Court Jester; women will NOT be attracted to you. Women who don’t need a man is called a Lesbian and not surprisingly even with these women acting like women won’t get you anywhere.

    A BIG part of becoming a Real MAN is to take matters into YOUR OWN HAND. You can’t just sit there and expect attractive women to come to you.

    You need to take control of your own life, and meet the kinds of women you’ve always wanted to meet.

  • How to Attract the Love of Your Life

    How to Attract the Love of Your Life

    Construct a scene on paper between you and this person using as much sensory detail (touch, taste, smell, sight, hearing) as you can. Before long, you will attract available people with the qualities you desire. Well, I used this technique, and it worked for me. After years of disastrous relationships, I married the man and attracted of my dreams.

    Have you heard about the technique Olympic athletes use to help them win gold medals?
    They close their eyes and “see” themselves making the winning basket, being first across the finish line, etc. They “feel” the weight of the medal as it’s draped over their necks.
    What does this have to do with you attract a good, fun, and faithful man or woman to spend the rest of your life with?
    Everything.


    You can use this technique, too, to attract a relationship with a man or woman who possesses the qualities you desire (do you know what they are, by the way?).
    Here’s how to do it:
    Decide what qualities you desire most in a husband or wife
    Write them down
    Construct a scene on paper between you and this person using as much sensory detail (touch, taste, smell, sight, hearing) as you can. (Make sure you write the scene in present or past tense! This is critical!).
    Read it out loud three times a day, preferably before your feet touch the floor in the morning, at lunch, and just before you drop off to sleep at night.
    Visualize it whenever you have a free moment (while you’re on hold, waiting on line at the bank, stuck in traffic, etc.).
    As you continue to do this exercise, you will notice that new details will seemingly pop into your scene from nowhere. That’s a good sign.
    Keep it up.
    Before long, you will attract available people with the qualities you desire. What’s more, you will be attracted to them, too. Getting dates will become effortless and maintaining a relationship with “the right one” will be blessedly free of angst and drama.
    Well, I used this technique, and it worked for me. After years of disastrous relationships, I married the man and attracted of my dreams.

  • Step by step instructions to Draw in, Entice and Keep Your Man

    Step by step instructions to Draw in, Entice and Keep Your Man

    The attraction stage involves flirting and projecting an attractive image. We also take as much care as possible to appear at our best. The next stage is when we decide to take things to the next level, usually sexually. From there it doesn’t take much hinting to let him know that if he doesn’t take you to bed soon, you may direct all that pent up passion in someone else’s direction.
    Think back on the beginning of your relationship.

    There are three stages in any relationship:
    1) Attraction
    2) Seduction
    3) Abandon or maintain Ship
    The attraction stage involves flirting and projecting an attractive image. We also take as much care as possible to appear at our best.


    The next stage is when we decide to take things to the next level, usually sexually. We bring out our sexiest lingerie and scent ourselves with the most seductive perfumes and body oils imaginable. From there it doesn’t take much hinting to let him know that if he doesn’t take you to bed soon, you may direct all that pent up passion in someone else’s direction.
    3) Finally there is the maintenance or abandon ship stage. This is the area where most of us get into trouble.
    Here are the errors in judgment that most of us make:
    1) We don’t take as much care with our appearance. Think back on the beginning of your relationship. How many times did you wear sweatpants in front of him then?
    Are you taking the same amount of time applying your makeup as you did back then? When was the last time you brushed your teeth or had a breath mint before you kissed him?
    2) We slack on our exercise routine. When we are trying to attract the love of our lives, we exercise, eat more salads and generally are so infatuated that we forget to eat.
    At the last stage of a relationship, our gym membership cards seem to get lost and in its place we find Ben and Jerry’s and a chocolate cake.
    3) We forget to keep the mystery in our relationships.
    Did you actually use the toilet in front of him when you were first dating? Of course not! Don’t let yourself get so comfortable that you forget that bodily functions are not the high point of romance.
    4) We criticize instead of admiring his best points. In the beginning he was wonderful and I am sure that you told him so. When was the last time you paid him a compliment lately?
    Finding a man and seducing him is the easy part, despite our occasional slumps. It is the work that you put in to keeping the seduction, flirtation, mystery and romance that will keep him on board or send him scurrying to abandon ship.

  • Witchcraft – Wicca, Spells, And Magick.

    Witchcraft – Wicca, Spells, And Magick.

    Witchcraft is neither white neither black. Witchcraft is a religious beliefs that appreciates Mother earth as well as She is neither entirely adverse or totally favorable, this coincides for witches.

    Spells are utilized by Wiccans, as well as are a collection of routines and also petitions that are carried out in witchcraft to request for magnificent assistance in a particular facet of life. All spells need to comply with the witchcraft standard procedure, implying that any type of spells utilized to hurt an additional individual is restricted. In witchcraft, spells might likewise be altered or adjusted to fit a Wiccan’s character or details dreams in casting the spell.

    When witchcraft is exercised as a faith, it is called by the Old English term for witch, Wicca. This term is utilized to respond to all the adverse stereotypes that culture has actually provided witchcraft.

    Exactly what is witchcraft, spells, and also magic?

    Witches refer to spells and also magnificent assistance as magick, not to be puzzled with magic, which we think about to be what you would certainly see at a program, an illusionist sawing a female in fifty percent, card methods, and so on. I presently live at residence with my 2 remarkable kids and also my acquainted (partner as the majority of individuals call it) delighting in life as well as being at one with nature.

    Witches look simply like every person else. Of program you might run right into the periodic witch that looks even more fiction than truth yet various other than those, the majority of are simply your standard Joe, the bulk often tend to pick to mix in as much as feasible. Not everybody is equipped with 21st century reasoning, as well as in some situations, witches are placed right into the exact same group as Satanists, heathens, and also simply normally negative individuals.

    When witchcraft is exercised as a religious beliefs, it is called by the Old English term for witch, Wicca. Spells are utilized by Wiccans, and also are a collection of routines as well as petitions that are performed in witchcraft to ask for magnificent assistance in a particular element of life. All spells need to stick to the witchcraft code of conduct, indicating that any kind of spells utilized to hurt one more individual is prohibited. In witchcraft, spells might additionally be altered or adjusted to fit a Wiccan’s individuality or particular dreams in casting the spell.

  • Why You Can’t Always Learn Witchcraft From Books

    Why You Can’t Always Learn Witchcraft From Books

    These articles are in electronic format and can be easily sent to other people (in fact, I encourage you to send it to your friends). Here’s why …

    Everybody was born with the power to control Magick energy, and it really is easy to use it for your benefit once you know the secrets. As a matter of fact, your focus and emotions send out Magick energy every day – and you may not even realize it.

    Before I get on with this article (my final one for awhile), I ‘d like to take a moment to apologize to you for something.

    The hidden energies that fuel real Magick are used every day (in many different forms) to literally transform people’s lives with breathtaking miracles.

    Not only do you get full step-by-step guides – but you get to see demonstrations of every technique.

    I have other resources I have completed that contain everything you need to gain full control of the hidden energy inside of you.

    My sincere hope for you is that after going through these articles, you will understand what is possible with Magick. And if they help you in any way, click here to tell me all about it (I ‘d really love to hear from you).

    No matter where your path takes you in life (and in Magick), I give you my Brightest Blessing on your future. May your road be filled with wonder, love, excitement, and pure happiness.

    These articles are in electronic format and can be easily sent to other people (in fact, I encourage you to send it to your friends). Here’s why …

    I know Witchcraft will change your life in ways you could only dream.

    The difference is knowing how to focus your emotion and belief toward something specific (like bringing romance, friends, wealth, and happiness into your life).

    That’s why I held back. It is also why I have taken a lifetime of Witchcraft secrets that I personally used to change my life, into one big box. I mean, you could find a good witch school, but it can be expensive to find a dedicated teacher.

    It is also why I have taken a lifetime of Witchcraft secrets that I personally used to change my life, into one big box.

    This could cause unthinkable problems, and it would be difficult to live with myself knowing that these articles caused anybody harm.

    Using Magick energy to “make things happen”, is very different from having the secrets to control it. You need to SEE somebody doing – not only the spells – but the important techniques of connecting with, and controlling, your own Magick energy.

    Using Magick energy to “make things happen”, is very different from having the secrets to control it. You need to SEE somebody doing – not only the spells – but the important techniques of connecting with, and controlling, your own Magick energy.

    The truth is, there is no way for me to actually show you these techniques in articles like the ones I have written. And I am worried that – if I lay out all of the steps for the spells, rituals, and other Witchcraft techniques in full, they may be abused (even “unknowingly abused”) by raw beginners getting in tune with Magick energy for the first time.

  • Real spells that work? The truth about REAL white witchcraft spells.

    Real spells that work? The truth about REAL white witchcraft spells.

    Those who have yet to experience energy influence should really try it. There are many success stories about using money spells to accomplish this in a matter of months.

    Why just decide to end a relationship or stop building a relationship because there are couple sex problems? Decide to see the truth about your spirituality and understand how real spells work.

    I believe that in our culture and society, there will always be resistance when you speak of fortune tellers or spell casting. There are many mainstream religions that teach you about the inner aura for a reason.

    This same energy network influences what will come to be and can be altered through white magic. These charmed spells normally are passed through generations of shadow books.

    There have been many who seek help for relationship problems using spells. If you need love advice on relationship problems then I invite you to speak with me. Love spells do work and can be effective for long term relationships.

    If you are looking to improve your love life, attract a new love, or improve the sex relationship consider white magic. If you can open your mind to spiritual solutions and magic spells then lasting change can happen.

    Through my natural gift and ancient Egyptian witchcraft practice, I have helped many through energy influence and my spells. The truth about white magic is that it must be cast from the heart in a genuine fashion to truly work. There are only certain individuals who have the psychic sight to guide spells that work.

    If you believe in spell casting or psychics, then you are halfway to understanding your own spiritual guidance path. If you get a white spell cast by just anyone, they it floats in the air and you are wasting money on conjures that don’t work.

    When people think of powerful love spells and energy influence, they think witchcraft supplies have scented pillar candles, hogwarts, magic voodoo love spell dust or secret love potions being made over a black leaky cauldron. For thousands of years, civilization has relied on real spell knowledge, energy influence and herb medicine. The truth is that real wicca practice and ancient Egyptian spell work is nothing like the movies.

    When people think of powerful love spells and energy influence, they think witchcraft supplies have scented pillar candles, hogwarts, magic voodoo love spell dust or secret love potions being made over a black leaky cauldron. For thousands of years, civilization has relied on real spell knowledge, energy influence and herb medicine. Through my natural gift and ancient Egyptian witchcraft practice, I have helped many through energy influence and my spells. Love spells do work and can be effective for long term relationships. If you can open your mind to spiritual solutions and magic spells then lasting change can happen.

    My answer: There are many spells that can be performed by an individual and are within the reach of the average beginner witch craft. I have several witchcraft spell books on my website that will help those who want to learn the art. They have all been written by myself and have been followed up with spell reviews.

    Most people don’t believe working with energy can help overcome a money, love, or health problem. Why then are there so many people turning to these solutions instead of health products?